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30-35,
*egaman
writes: hey all,so the other day, me and my bestie were sitting in the bus next to each other. we were kinda laughing and pinching the hell out of each-other but things got down hill when i ''ACCIDENTALLY'' touched her breast while we were pinching each other. i honestly did not mean to do that!!!! she then got pissed, said that im in the red zone, and stopped talking to me for the entire day. i apologized for 5 consecutive minutes and promised her that it was not intentional ,but she is still REAL mad. i dont have feelings for her or anything but she is a real good friend and everything has been awkward ever since. is she making a big deal out of this? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (25 November 2012):
Yes she’s making a big deal out of it. You apologised and explained that it was an accident. It’s down to her now to be a bit more mature about it. If it upset her in any way, she should talk to you about it, not just get angry even when you have apologised.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2012): Yes she is making way too big of a deal over it. You have apologised for what was obviously an accident, and what happened isn't even a huge deal anyway! Stop apologising and let her come to you now - you've done more than you should to make up with her already. All the best.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (25 November 2012):
There's nothing more you can do. At this point, every time you apologize, it just feeds her ego more... Don't need her so much, and if she comes back into your life, it's all gravy. If she doesn't come back, no worries, there are always more people out there willing to be friends with you. No worries. Her loss.
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