A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My story is kind of long so I´ll try to be quick...I moved up to New York when I was about 9 and lived up there for roughly about 9 years, when I was 13 I met this guy named A (there´s another guy this A) and well it was puppy love I guess and we went through alot even though we were together for only six months, the point is that even after we broke up I didn´t want to let him go so I became an obsessed maniac and tried to get him back but failed, 3 years later I met one of his friends, named B, (by accident I didn´t know they knew each other) and I was with him for 2 years and I thought he was the actual love of my life and no matter what happened we would be together...Things come to this, I got news that my dad´s petition for citizenship was declined so we had to go back to my home country and imagine it right? Telling a teenager she had no choice but to leave her life and true love behind I was devastated, and A decided to talk to me again and once again became a big part of my life. I left NY but kept thinking that B would be the only one that would actually come get me, since they both talked about marrying me and everything, until one day he told me that it was impossible and he wouldn´t come get me and I wouldn´t go back, thus I decided that I wouldn´t go back and would make my life down here, meanwhile A was still messaging me about how we would make a life together and everything....Since B shattered all my dreams of going back, and still being a teenager, I decided to get revenge my own way and ended up dating guy C and got pregnant and well, now we´re no longer together....and A accepts that I have a son though he´s not sure about being a step-dad and says that he still loves me and does want to be with me despite me being miles away and wants to visit me.....my question is...is it possible for him to actually love me despite the years that have gone by and accept me and my son and for me to be happy with him?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 May 2012):
 At the end of the day really only he can answer this. You where both only very young when you where together so a lot can change since then. I can understand that he feels like he loves you, but you are both not the same person you where back then, and plus the distance makes everything so much harder especially at such a young age. It is also hard for such a young person to accept another man's child and settle down as a family. This will be a long shot, so I don't think you should get your hopes up to much mainly because of the distance.
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