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writes:This has been a problem for too long now and I really need help with this issue concerning an ex friend. I’ve never really had many friends in my life but I’ve never let it bother me when I moved on from the few friends that I did have. But this one friend who I met in college became the best mate I ever had. He seemed similar to me, we had similar interests and got on really well. But then things changed as he seemed to get annoyed with me easily at times when I didn't even do anything wrong. I did also have an annoying gay crush on him which I couldn't seem to get rid of no matter what and I was feeling very depressed at the time which still exists now. He then got a job and changed a lot and it was like he was a completely different person. He stopped bothering with me and would only talk to me when there was no one else around and when we did speak he would always try and prove me wrong and would look down on me. However he did always want to hang around with me during college breaks and sit with me in classes. We knew each other for almost 2 years and now we have gone to different universities and haven’t spoken in almost two years, even though I sent him a message and birthday messages but he ignored them and now only seems to bother with his new and other friends. Now I just want to move on and forget I ever knew him but for some reason I can’t as he is always on my mind and this always gets me down. Every day I look at his facebook which I know is stalking but I feel really down and sick when I see he has made new mates and is having a good time in his photos when I am not. I’ve taken him off Facebook but I keep on blocking and unblocking him as I feel the need to know what he’s up to. I have met new people and done more to try and put my mind off him but still this does nothing.Can anyone help me understand why I feel this and give me any advice on how to forget about him and move on?
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reader, UK1980 +, writes (14 September 2012):
If you do find a way that works for you i'd love to hear it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for answering but talking to him is not possible. The last time I messaged him he just ignored me. He's definitely moved on and I just wish I could do the same.
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