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30-35,
*racie2008
writes:i have been with my sons dad for 2 yrs and i have a little girl by a different guy.now and at first he was really affecionate and caring and now everytime i try to kiss,or cuddle with him he doesnt want me to,he tells me to move or hes too hot or something,and i dont know why because he works through the week and then when he has a day off i would like to relax and cuddle and watch a movie or something,he just acts boredi understand he might be tired from work but i miss him and just want to show him some love when i can! he barely ever sleeps in the same bed with me always on the couch,it seems like the only time we are close is when we are having sex,i will try to look nice for him one day and he barely compliments me..he will get upset if i try to talk to him about something and change the story around and then we will argue and another thing sometimes i feel he doesnt show the kids enough attention when im at work he doesnt try to see his first little boy and i have tried to get him to but he doesnt want to and that makes me feel like he would do the same thing to my son if we were not together.Ijust feel like his love for me is slipping can someone please give me advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2012): As a woman as well, I totally get what you are saying. But, when it comes to men, they don't "naturally" love like women do. We were born to nuture and to love and it comes naturally to us, whereas with men they have to learn it. So teach teach him to love more on you and to notice you more and to be a good father to your children you need to do something for him. Respect him. Show him what you want. So compliment him, give him a kiss, make him feel important and respected and needed, in return he will recognize that he means something to you as well and respond to that with the love you need. The Bible says for Husbands to LOVE their wives but also for wives to RESPECT their husbands. Women want to feel love, men want to feel like a man. So if you show him that hes still a man to you, then he will love you more. I hope this helps :)
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