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male
age
36-40,
*harger
writes: Hey is it bad if me and my girlfriend don't talk everyday? She only likes to text. I like talking to her a lot but maybe too much I'm not sure. We just recently said I love yous and she said she's is gonna make up for how she has treated me the last few weeks. She does have a 15 month little girl. I guess it seems I try more then her and not sure how often I should try talking to her.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (27 May 2012):
Talk to her and ask her what she wants. It is the only way you are going to have any answers. Maybe she is just waiting for you to contact her or maybe she is content waiting a few days before talking to you. The only way you will find out is if you talk to her and ask her.
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male
reader, Charger +, writes (27 May 2012):
Charger is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm mean no contact at all for a couple days is that fine or should I think she doesn't care too much? I stayed at her house a couple days this last week. She has said she really cares for me. She was the first one to say I love you and that was last week. Basically I just want to know should I try not to contact her everyday and give her a little space so she misses me more?
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female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (27 May 2012):
Some people just do not like to talk on the phone, how often do the both of you hang out face to face? It is okay to go one or two days without talking on the phone if the both of you are keeping in contact through messages. I know personally I hate talking on the phone, I prefer sending a message, where as I know people who hate sending messages. I guess it just depends on personal preferences. I guess the only thing to do is to talk to her face to face about how you are feeling and see how it goes.
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