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*ngelica10
writes:hi.. i have a relationship with age gap difference and different nationality and religion. but we respect each other and we dont see this differences between us. im asking for a blessing from my family but their are very concerned to me and what other people say to me.. but i dont care. i love him and i cant live without him. so im asking for a help whats the best words or action to my family?? i hope you can help. thankyou very much Reply to this Question
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reader, Pretty and proud  +, writes (28 May 2012):
 Are you happy with this guy?
Do you love him?
Is he a decent man?
Can you see a future with this man?
Would you like to live with this guy?
Do you know your man, warts and all?
If you answered yes to the above questions then the ball is in your family's court. They decide if they like him, if you think he's your soulmate then just be with him and they will accept him in thier own time. Even if it doesnt work out your family will still be there for you. Just chill out and pretend you are so happy you don't care what they think. They will have to accept your man, or they won't and that's thier loss. Look out for number 1
Good luck x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 May 2012):
 I can understand where you are coming from, I don't think religion or anything else should come in the way of two people who love each other if they do not have a problem with it. However yes families sometimes can have worries and concerns as it is all new to them. I guess there is nothing really that you can say to them. Just show them how happy that you are and hopefully in time they will accept this.
Just be honest with yourself, you and your man are happy and that is all that matters. Just keep reminding your family about how well he treats you and how happy you are. Talk to them and ask them what worries they have and try to reassure them, good luck and all the best.
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