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female
age
36-40,
*rtarta
writes:we've been together for 4 years..2 of them in a long distance relationship..i love him very very much...and i know that he loves me too...he never never doubted that we will get married etc..but lately it seems like i'm the only one that wants to make it work..i write him like 10 times a day...and he's like busy all the time...but his answers are always full of love....and i know i should just be patient untill we deffinitely decide to get married...but how do i make him to do more for us? like text me more...miss me more...and not cheat on me....i'd like a guy's point of view...why do they comfort in a long relationship and do not try more? should i be worried?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 May 2012):
 Am not sure what you are wanting fixed here if I am honest, he is contacting you every day, am not sure what more you want from him. Obviously it is going to be a hard relationship because it is long distance, this just makes things really difficult as the only contact you are getting is on the phone or messaging. How often do you both get to actually meet up and see each other? If you cannot get over him cheating or you want someone who can give you more then I think maybe the best thing to do is to look for someone closer to home.
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reader, artarta +, writes (27 May 2012):
artarta is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe only text each other so i dont think its too often...its like good morning and good night..what are you up to and stuff like this...he texts me every day of course...but its like he doesnt care much if im out with my friends etc...he cheated on me..begged me to forgive him and i eventually did...and i thought now that he's 'guilty' he's gonna try harder...try to fix the things between us..etc...but its like before...
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (27 May 2012):
You need to be more specific. You say he does not always contact you back, but how often does he contact you? Ten times a day is a little bit extreme, I know you are in love and that is great and all but do you really want to come across as being clingy? Guys can get fed up with this very quickly, especially ten times a day. You need to be more specific about how often he does contact you, if it is only one or twice every couple of weeks then yes you might have something to worry about, but if you could write back and be more specific I might be able to help you more.
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