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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:What is with this girl? I'll admit at first, I thought she was extremely sexy, just like everyone else did. But after my first one on one (if you could call it that), I'm totally put off by her. the first time I actually said something to her, she completely ignores me. I said hi. She said nothing. Ok. . .I think for a second that she didn't really hear me so I said hi again and asked her how her day was going. THIS TIME she diliberately walked away. WTF.I let that go. I'm not one to continue to try and speak with a girl if she doesn't want the attention. A few days later I end up at her register trying to buy something. I asked her where a certain item was. She ignored me AGAIN. I damn near had to use a pissed off attitude to get her to answer me. She pointed in the direction of the item I was looking for, never making eye contact for a second, all the while laughing it up with a fellow co-worker. Ok, I understand she obviously doesn't want me talking to her, but does she have to be a complete b*tch about it? And no, it's not the rejection that's getting to me. I've been rejected by girls plenty of times but they all seem to reject me the. . .right way. They say they have boyfriends or not looking to date right now. But this one, this particular one just straight up pretends I don't exist. Maybe it's affecting my ego but it just totally bugs me the way she acts when I'm around. She's completely relaxed and happy with the other guy workers but when I say something as simple as "hi", it's like I'm asking the most personal question in the world.At first I thought she liked me. She would constantly stare at me when she thought I wasn't looking but after TRYING to get to know her, I just feel as if she thinks I'm nothing but dog sh*t on her shoes. Maybe I'm just venting but I would really like to know why a girl would act this way. I wasn't asking for a date. I was just trying to get to know her. It doesn't become easier when most of my guy buddies are trying to get with her. AND she seems to like THEIR attention. They would constantly ask if I think they have a shot because of the way she smiles at them. I do all I could to avoid calling her a major b*tch in front of them because I know it would only sound immature. I don't even know why it's bothering me so much. She sticks out more than any other girl I've hit on in the past. Well, I haven't even hit on her yet. Or ever will. Ladies, why would you feel the need to be this way with a guy you don't even know? It can't be my looks. I get comments by girl on how fit I am. Just a few weeks ago, a girl complimented me on how nice my upperbody was. I thought it was wierd how she worded it but I figured she was just nervous or being funny. And another fellow worker said that I could be a male stripper if I wanted to. I KNOW she was hitting on me because she repeated when I pretended not to hear it the first time, lol. So what could this girl possibly have against me?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 May 2012):
 It really is hard to tell, maybe she has a crush on you and does not know how to speak to you? Maybe someone has being lying to her about you and now she has a dislike to you? Maybe she thinks you are not a nice person? It really is a hard one to tell. I think you should just forget about her and let her act the way that she wants. I know that it can be hard, but obviously she has her reasons, something that you might never find out. But you should be the bigger person and just ignore it and avoid her when you can.
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