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writes:I recently found out that a guy that I had really strong feelings for was straight. First I went through the whole denial, then anger, then depression, and finally recovery. I am over him now and I can't even fantasize about him anymore, but that just feels weird. But now more than ever I want someone to be with. I now have no fantasy relationship, and I haven't a boyfriend, so I ask you, what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Brandy205  +, writes (23 May 2012):
Nothing happens before the time is right, so just chill and the right person will come along. Remember you are still very young so you've got plenty of time. In the meantime, hang out with your friends and enjoy their company. There is nothing sexier than a guy who is confident in his own skin and is not looking for someone else to complete them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2012): Don't worry about it, just relax and focus on your current life goals (school, job, whatever) and THAT'S when you'll meet someone! You've probably heard it before, but it honestly works like magic. I broke up with my arsehole of a boyfriend a few weeks ago and decided to hit the town last week, with no intention of picking anyone up or meeting anyone, and yet I met a guy while I was out and we got to chatting, next thing I know I'm going out clubbing with him a week later! I know your being from the USA means youre not old enough to get into clubs yet but thats not the only place you meet guys :) so just enjoy life and life will reward you :)
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