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writes:so, i am 13 almost 14 and cant stop thinking about ..... sex, i know i am to young but keep thinking about sexual things me and my ex used to do(like kissing, and playing about). i dont know if it is right to think of this. what should i do, i dumped him last month as he was cheating on me. i dont know if it was the right thing to do - just dumping him, i think i still love him, even though he has done all of that. my mind is mixed up and i dont know what to do.... please help me!! (oh yeah and we were really close and well, you know mucked around in my room-not sex though)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok then i just hope he will be better to her than he was to me :L , thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhaha that actually might work :) thanks
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (20 May 2012):
 Sorry to be so crude, but if you label him as a "fuck and fuck off" merchant as widely as possible, this other girl might get the message - and any other potential targets of his.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks every one, u really helped me. the thing is he has another gf now and i dont want her getting hurt two but she wont listen. but yeah i know he prob did just want me for sex, and i just wasnt ready for it. THANKS EVERYONE :) xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2012): welcome to the teenage girl syndrome.its so normal to keep thinking like that.you did the right thing honey..cheaters will allways be cheaters. never ever forgive or stay with a cheater. there are plenty of guys out there, some might turn out jerks some will turn out good. the good are the ones who wouldn't cheat ,care for you, and be faithful in every way. Unfortunately, at your age..you are too young to know if a guy is good enough for you, means well or just wants sex from you. you can't judge that easy.. since you sound the type who will not forget that easily , i'd advice you to avoid physical intimacy until you are old enough to judge and decide whether or not to give yourself. or you may end up feeling hurt , since you are a minor it might be more difficult to cope up with such hurt. keep dreaming as much as you want sweetie..even i used to. no harm. But from sheer experience i'd advice you to save yourself until you are ready ,and old enough to make a man commit to you. 1) 13-18 yr old boys are not up for any commitment,they just want fun.2)don't think of going for 18 + men thinking that they are mature...because an 18+ guy who means well will not date a 13-14 yr old unless he wants to trap her for sex.so basically, if you start on real sex right now.. you would have to keep dumping/getting dumped until you are 16 or 17 ...13 is way too young for sex.safe/unsafe what so ever...dream as much as you want...watch romance read romance anything! date your age fellas and learn from your relationships. just casually date and see..keep these relationships very limited..wait until you're old enough for sex and serious relationships (ideally 18+).. your body is still growing ,and your mind yet to fully develop.Do other stuff...play , make friends, develop your skills in everything..this is the age to do that, not make a mess of your life,without having a clue!these feelings might intensify between 15-17. ignore..when you find a person whom you love ,who loves you back ...not the type who will cheat and you know that you're old enough then you can take the next big step..and that too with protection! :) never do things because all your friends are, trust me it will pay off someday! ALL THE BEST SWEETHEART.. :* XoX
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reader, Shadow Rose  +, writes (20 May 2012):
 It's your hormones. This is the time in your life that changes your body and makes you think about that kind of stuff differently. Your hormones will only continue onwards through high school, and once you become an adult, it might or might not continue, those feelings, until you get a steady lover/boyfriend/husband to please you often.
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (20 May 2012):
You say "not sex, though", which could explain why he cheated - he got it elsewhere!
I'm NOT saying that YOU should have let him; just offering a likely explanation and if it's true it tells you all you need to know about this boy - that he isn't worth wasting your emotions over.
You think about sex all the time? So do I, and I'm a lot older than you!
IT'S NORMAL!!!
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