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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey guys!So 3 months ago (febuary) i had my first date ever with this guy. We had been chatting before over fb, and when i went home for a holiday he wanted to meet me, and we really hit it off. We went on 4 dates and i really felt happy with him...we kissed and made out..he made me feel special =)After those 4 dates i had to leave country again till next june (about 26 days left to go home permenantly!!! :D )..anyways he said that he'll wait for me if i promise not to hurt him. Now through these 3 months he really seemed to miss me. He first sent me a hand drawn card sayin ''to someone very special''.. and that was only after 1 month we had met...then on my bday in april he sent another card and 2 softoys.Now the problem is that i think i do miss him but its like i have a feeling inside that he's too good for me..its like i want to see him and be with him again, but i'm scared of what could happen in summer. I'm afraid i'll bore him because i don't go swimming because of my weight and because i don't like parties. He already said that he doesn't mind and that we''ll find other ways to have fun, but still i have doubts. Is this because its my first relationship and because i always had my heart broken? I don't even say that he's my bf and dont even want him to come and see me at d airport when i go home! Its not because i'm ashamed or anything, but its like for me he's too good to be true! Is this normal guys?!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2012): Nope. He obviously likes you because he thinks you are good enough for him. You're just feeling insecure. Be happy and proud that such a great guy likes you, instead of doubting. good luck :)
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