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*eashalyn1
writes:I think I'm going crazy! My boyfriend is getting on my nerves and making me paranoid. We seem to have 2 different ideas of commitment and relationships. Most of all my lack of trust with him right now is ugly. He says he wants friends but he's only interested in making female friends how is that not supposed to be a little weird. Then When he does meet one they only talk online or call when I'm gone usually at work. Yet it's not supposed to bother me. It might not be such an issue if he didnt do this once before but the girl he was talking to somehow they fell in love over the phone. We've worked thru numerous bs. He says its not cheating unless sex or oral is involved I say cheating is sneaking around talkin to or fallin in love with whether the touching is there or not. Can someone help me break this down and regain a little sanity please I dont want my relationship to end but he's driving me crazy with the stupid sh*t he does.
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reader, Seashalyn1 +, writes (23 May 2012):
Seashalyn1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wish with everything that would work but he's a different breed his family made him so cold hearted its ridiculous. Thanks for the advice but I'm just stuck cryin again
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reader, confused5000 +, writes (21 May 2012):
You should start distancing yourself and pay less attention to him. When he ask you what's up tell him you are just really disappointed by his actions and you've started not feeling the same way about him that you used to. If you tell someone that something they are doing is bothering you, whether they agree with your logic or not, and they keep doing it, they don't care about you.
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reader, Seashalyn1 +, writes (21 May 2012):
Seashalyn1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know it seems this way but he's actually not and in all reality I'm not gullible by a long shot I'm just tired of his selfish and unappreciative ways. Does that make sense? Yea I want to stay with him that's why I'm looking for a little help with the way I'm feeling. Thanks for your opinion though
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reader, MrWombat  +, writes (20 May 2012):
 This made me LOL. Your bf sounds like a playa. Keep him if that's what you want, but he isn't going to change. Why should he?
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