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41-50,
*hanana
writes:I feel my sex life is getting a little stale. We see each other always one morning a week, same morning, same routine. The sex is amazing but we're getting in a rut. Does anyone have any suggestions for spicing it up? We can't really do a different day or different time, we both have children and this is our only real chance to see each other without the kids.
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reader, shanana +, writes (8 March 2012):
shanana is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOur children go to their other parent's homes on the same night. That is the reason for the always day. We do meet on other days from time to time but ALWAYS that one day. We have our children on opposite weekends. We have decided not to involve our kids in our relationship until he and I are sure this will lead somewhere.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (8 March 2012):
 yeah why are you only meeting One day a week?
you both have kids do either of you have a spouse or a long term partner in addition to your lover?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2012): Lingerie
Role Play
Toys
Positions
Games (like strip poker)
or maybe abstinence for a while
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2012): Just wondering are you two married to someone else,as what you are doing sounds a little strange to me.things like it always has to be on the same day,same time,and only once a week.????????
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (7 March 2012):
Oh dear, not a good sign if you only meet once a week and its stale. However, I get your drift in that it is the same day each week so is predictable in that since.
Have you tried any roleplay? Does he always come to your home and you go straight to bed? If so, what about meeting in a restaurant and doing a little flirting with each other across the table, or even going out in the car (but don't get caught) and go somewhere discrete and flirt with each other in the car.
What about having a shower together, or a bubble bath? The list is endless to be honest, but I dont feel I can put it all on here.
At the end of the day, you only get out of sex what you put in to it. Your more than welcome to email me if you want a few more ideas.
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