My wife has moved out and made a list of demands, what do I do? There's a child involved!

A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Dont know what to do. I married this girl 4 years back. I had kept myself virgin. I had a dream of being one woman man. So I got married to this girl four years back in traditional marriage. My family selected this girl and when I met her I told her everything. Like I smoke and drink, but she accepted me telling there is no wrong if I do so but in limit. We were very happy for 2 - 3 months. But then she started forcing me to be stay saparate from my family. After long discussion I agreed and now we are saparated from my mom and dad. Later she started stopping me from giving financial help to my family. But when her father asks for money, she forces me to give. And threatens me to leave, die or divorce whenever I oppose her. There is no problem in giving money to her family, but equall amount should be given to my family also. Now she opposes me for small drinks and smoke. Even she tell me directly that she hates my family. Her father may be driving her. I have one very beautiful son, who looks exactly like me. And he calls me dada. From last month she has moved to her parrents house and whenever required she asks money. And when I ask her to come back, she tells she will only come if i prove her that i love her and accept her all the terms. Otherwise she will never come back. I dont care for her now anymore. But my 14 month old sone is my life. What shall i do, shall i divorce her or live life like that only. One thing is sure now. I hate girls.

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