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writes:so i am in love with this guy who is also the best friend of my best guy friend. i told my friend about it and i suppose he told this guy about me having a crush on him. later when one of my other friends also told him about me he talked to me and said that if this had been two months earlier, we would have gotten along but not now because he has a gf. it has been one year now and am still not over it. a week ago i found out that he's broken up with his gf.my friends say that i should talk to him again but i think if he wants to be with me he should come and ask me because then it will seem as i am forcing myself on him. tell me if i am right.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 March 2012):
 yeah he just broke up... give him some time to process it and heal... you don't want to be his rebound girl...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2012): Give him some time to get over this break up, and then just talk to him like you would normally to anyone. Don't ask him out, he already knows you liked him before, so if he is interested he will come around.
Maybe after some time you can ask him if he wants to hang out some time, and if he says yes just see how it goes.
Good luck
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reader, Johnnz  +, writes (7 March 2012):
now that he's single its a good time to just hang out and see where it goes... dont mention how you feel, if he feels the same he will become curious if you still do
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (7 March 2012):
 Well he has only just broken up with his gf so I think you should let it settle down a while.
I agree let him ask you out because he already knows how you feel. Why state intentions again?
Like you say, the guy doesnt want you to think your forcing yourself on him when he's just come out of a relationship.
So if your feeling brave ask him in some weeks if he wants to go out on a date.
Goodluck!
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