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female
age
30-35,
*ofialoren
writes:He's very cute and in my English lit class at university. We went on a drama society trip for a musical and although we were in a group we pretty much ignored everyone through the entire trip and kept to ourselves and talked.He keeps imitating my body language, if we sit near each other in class he keeps moving to match my posture (if you know what I mean). Also the other day he asked me to meet him for lunch and we ended up sunbathing for a couple of hours (he missed two lectures). This friday we are going to see a play which is slightly 'adult' since it is based on a rather sexually explicit book. We both have to study this book for our essay and thought it might be good to watch it. He keeps making jokes about the sexual nature of the play and the book.I'm nervous about this play because I fancy him a lot and I think he fancies me too and I really want him to kiss me.He's not made any attempt to kiss me YET but when we walk our shoulders touch and it's almost as if he is pushing into me slightly. Also there is intense eye contact when we talk or say bye. He is slightly shy and oh I really fancy him.What do I do?
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reader, Starlights +, writes (7 March 2012):
 Just go with the flow!
Its natural to be nervous around him, but you need to act neutral or he'll pick up on your feelings and back off.
So when you go and see the play, just act natural, discuss the play and flirt as you both usually naturally do.
He obviously fancies you, so see what happens, go with the flow and dont worry too much or panic, because what you feel is natural hormones.
Goodluck!
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