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age
30-35,
*onfusedloneliness
writes:So i have Been with my boyfriend for two years now it has taken alot of work to get him to act the way a bf should before he wouldnt care about lots of things i would always be put after his friends he wouldnt say i love u when i would say it to him he would just say ok he was a jerk sometimes and when he ould hurt my feeling he wouldnt try and fix it he would just have me basically begging him to talk to me last year in april i looked through his phone and saw that he was talking to another gurl i still havent gotten over that i never saw any text that said oh lets meet up i only saw her wnating to see him and he would always make excuses. but ine never knows so i confronted him and litterly begged him to apologize well around aug 2011 he did apologize from the heart and said that it was a stupid mistake that he loves me...now he tells me he loves me on his own without me saying it and he is more attentive but still had that jerk side to him were he shows he dont care if he hurts my feelings every now and then and im a very sensitive person so now that things have been pretty good with him whenever we fight i feel like its gonna be the end of our relationship he is my 2nd actual realtionship and the first person i have sex with i love him so much and i want to be with him forever but the way he acts sometimes makes me fee like he doesnt really carea botu me and i have talked to him about all this and he doesnt know how he acts he tells me that i blow things out of porportion and maybe i do but idk and well the problem is i meet a new guy at work and he is just the sweeetest guy i know and he told me that he likes me and respects that i have a bf but wants to be with me not sexually but emotionally and he txts me everyday and calls me something my bf does not do i am always the one calling my bf and textung him and looking for him i know if i werent to txt me bf he wont do it either and he has started to want to go out with his friends again once a week everyweek and it worries me he went awhile without going out with his friends and now he starting to act like before but now he txts me and tells me where he is at and tells me when he gets home however i do text him and ask him these questions and before he wouldnt reply and now he does..the new guy talks to me so sweet and is sensitive and caring and respectful and everything my bf dont do he does and i think im starting to like him alot he hugged me last night and i could feel my heart trying to rip out of my chest and he told me that he wanted to kiss me and i startedt o cry cuz i dont want to cheat on my bf i love him but this new guy is coming into my life and im starting to like him idk what to do i dont want to throw away all my input on my relations oh and i drive to his house on the weekedns its like 26 miles away from my house and school...my paretns moved to another country and i stayed here to be with him my bf so i have sacraficed alot to be with him and i jut dont wanna throw it away over what might be a fling what do i do? im stuck i think about my bf but i think more about the new guy now too help me pls readers and give me advice on my situation it would help alot i really appreciate your time so much god bless you all
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2012): This must be a difficult situation, you have my deepest sympathy.
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