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anonymous
writes: So... My ex broke up with me 4 months ago and I still think about her every day but mostly cause I miss her and her friendship. Do you think i should contact her and ask her if she would like to be friends again see that being more than friends is out of the question. Cause she has moved to the west coast now. Or does anyone have any tips to stop dreaming of her cause i just think i miss talking to her.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (2 July 2012):
I agree with Starlights, if you where to contact her now and start talking as a friend all your old feelings would come rushing back making it so much more harder to move on with your life. It is very difficult for ex's to be friends, as to much in the past has happened and friendship sometimes just is not enough. Four months really is not a long time and believe me things will get better in time and you will think about her less. Just get on with your own life and go out and meet new girls.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (2 July 2012):
Well you could stay friends with her; but that make it harder for you to move on.
Personally i would accept that its time to move on; and stop contact because eventually time is a great healer; and you will move on,
I suggest taking up a new hobby will also help you and boost your confidence .
Goodluck
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