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writes:Okay, I am 14, my boyfriend is 13, been together for over a month. He wants to move to second base ( feeling/touching..), if it's okay with me. I just wonder if that's too soon.. :/
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2012): Personally I see nothing wrong with your age, I was 14 when I lost my virginity and now I'm nearly 19 and with the same boy who I love. However, if you think it's too soon, then yes it's too soon because you are worrying about it so you are obviously not ready. Relax and take it at your own pace (:
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 July 2012):
 if you are asking, then it's too soon.
If you wanted to try it with him, then you would have done it.
so for YOU yes it's too soon.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (2 July 2012):
You’re much to young, and it’s much too early in to the relationship to move to touching. The fact that you even need to ask the question says it all: you’re not ready! These things really should not be rushed in to, explain to your boyfriend that now is not the right time to be doing this. Don’t allow yourself to be pressured by him, no must mean no until you’re ready. And I’d suggest that at 14, you really shouldn’t be ready for quite some time yet.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, NFL  +, writes (2 July 2012):
 Wait!You are still young to do this kind of a thing.In my country is against the law. wait until you 18 or over.
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reader, HughHefner'sPlaymate +, writes (2 July 2012):
 You guys are 13 and 14 years old ! You are way to young to be even thinking about this. If you do go "second base" at such a young age you could regret it for years to come. Do not let him pressure you into doing anything sexual and if he gets angry or even slightly upset dump him fast because 9 times out of 10 he's only interested in using you.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (2 July 2012):
 If you are not comfortable with it, then it's too soon.
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