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writes:I was just reading an Article about FWB relationships.The guy in the article stated a guy who is in a FWB relationship can still feel jealous if the girl sleep with any other guy. Even though they aren't emotionally attached to each other.What do you guys say about this. Is it true ?
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reader, zorb21  +, writes (31 August 2013):
I find I get jealous/protective regardless of the relationship I have with a girl. I'm not sure if it's some primal feeling or not, but even if a girl I was friends with started sleeping around, I'd feel like she was doing something wrong. That's just the way I am.
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reader, bearN +, writes (2 July 2012):
bearN is verified as being by the original poster of the question He never proposed me FWB relationship. I doubt he even knows such things exist.
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reader, bearN +, writes (2 July 2012):
bearN is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI agree this will not end well. But we both like each other a lot. So no point in staying away from each other. All we want is to enjoy the present moment and see each other getting married to someone else.
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reader, bearN +, writes (2 July 2012):
bearN is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am sorry , I don't think we are friends with benefits.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2012): Yeah, very much so.
Look bearN if this is something that the guy you like has proposed or you think it might work for you and him to do that then don't.
I think people need to read your previous question to get some get context because your friends, the ones who know you best think he's using you and they're right if you are friends with benefits:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-do-guys-get-mad-when-we-girls.html
Look the most basic rule of friends with benefits, by far the most important thing is that you cannot have feelings for them. If you have feelings for a friend with benefits then you will get hurt because what you really want is a relationship and you're never going to have it.
BearN if this guy is sleeping with you and getting sexual with you but can't ever have a relationship with you because of his religion then he's a using scumbag.
Because his religion says he can't get sexual before marriage too, so he's just using you if he does this.
In your previous question people were tactful about it and didn't state what you have to do which is to stay away from this guy, you can't have him and never will, if he gets sexy with you he's just using you and breaking his religion to do so. That makes him a scumbag and even your friends already think he is, so I'm inclined to agree with them.
This guy sounds like he is using you and while you may think it's romantic or cool to listen to your heart, your heart is going to be shattered into a million pieces because this is not going to end well for you.
The only good thing for you in your situation is to walk away, nothing good can come from your love for this guy, you will NEVER have him and the longer you stick around a slave to your love the more hurt you're going to get.
FWB's rarely work even when both people don't have feelings but when one person has feelings it's a hellish nightmare you really shouldn't go through because it may well destroy you and make you very hurt, sad and bitter.
This guy is no good, he has nothing to offer you and will never give you what you truly desire from him.
This is only going to end with you being very hurt.
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (2 July 2012):
 I agree with Mandy. I want to have sex with my soulmate not someone I'm mates with. I guess anything in an emergency but with your friend. whats that about?
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (2 July 2012):
 HI
These relationships are soul distroying. However most guys/girls will get jealous because they want the FWB ,but they dont want you to sleep around. They want their cake and eat it. Also why would any one want this kind of emotional detached life?? In rare cases it works with the people involved, but I worry why they can not lead a normal healthy relationship between two people.
Mandyx
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