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I'm confused is he shy or just not interested in me?

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Question - (2 July 2012) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2012)
A female New Zealand age 36-40, *haunadior writes:

I seen this guy on friday night who used to be in my college class and i do have a crush on him, i seen him stare at me as my friend and I past him to walk to the bar. As my friend and I were chatting i seen him getting closer to us but he didnt say anything. We were then chatting to his friend and he was standing next to him but kept acting werid like he didnt know what to do lol . Like stand and talk to us or go he kept turning round to us but I didnt actually look at him in the eye so he left. then my friend started talking to him as he was near our table he was facing me but kept his hands in his pocket the whole time.. he would smile but wld not look at me in the eye and when i stared back at him he quickly looked away?? im confused is he shy or just not interested in me?? He is really hot and i fancy him but not sure if he likes me if he would not talk to me? thanks for reading folks :D

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (2 July 2012):

person12345 agony auntWhy can't you make the first move? Guys don't always have to do it, they're just as scared of rejection as women are. If you like him and are getting vibes he likes you too, ask him out!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2012):

Definitely interested and definitely shy ;-) You'll have to make the first move on this one, but I'm convinced he'll thank you for it!

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A female reader, Wow123 United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2012):

Boys aren't mind readers, you should explain to him that you like him, and make a move. If you don't you may never know if he likes you... Try and find out what he is interested in and talk to him. Maybe he doesn't know what to say.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (2 July 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntFrom what you describe it sounds to me like he might be shy. You say you do not understand why he never spoke to you, but did you make an effort to speak to him? If you have crush on this guy then you need to take a step and start talking to him and get to know him. He might think you do not like him either as you never spoke to him, see it works both ways. Next time you see him start speaking to him, ask him what he's been up to since he left college and just take the conversation from there. Good luck.

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