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writes:please i really need some help on a decision i will have to make very soon! basically i have this friend iv known for a good few months we actually met for the 1st time a few years ago but we hadnt seen each other after that until a few months ago, he was in a very heavy going relationship before we became friends and iv recently had some deep feelings for him we have slept together but i dont know where he is at the moment i get the feeling he likes me as he came up to visit me at uni not that long ago. i have recently been talking to this other guy but we have only been talking for about a week and he has already said that he loves me and would like to be with me i like him a lot too but i really have no idea what to do please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 Okay well the thing is it is still really early days with both of these guys, so I guess if it was me I would just relax and take things as they come and see how it goes. The first guy sounds interested yes because he came to visit you, however sleeping with him before knowing what his intentions are is never a good idea, because sometimes this can lead to a man only wanting something casual with you then. As for the second guy well he has only knowing you a week and he is saying he loves you, that to me is not right, he obviously does not know what love is and he uses the word carelessly. Off course the decision is completely up to you.
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