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*ranny1297
writes:my sister caught me watching porn. im to scared to talk to her now. she's always so nosey, she reads my diary and stalks me, i know i shouldn't be watching porn, and i have tried to curve the habit. how can i make it seem not that bad? what is she tells my parents. it started when i was watching peter pan on a website and this porn pop up came. i always ignore it but one day i decided to click on it i watched it and my sister caught me and now im scared she's going to tell my parents and they'll think of me as dirty and that i never do my work properly on the computer, it was a one off thing, what can i do? what would you do if you were in my situation? i work hard at school?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2012): Walk away from that trash. You are too young to be watching that or understand it. Why? Because it's giving you a very false sense of what intimate sex between two partners really is. What you are viewing is fake, presented for shock value, degrading to women. What you are seeing is women doing everything and anything and you should not think for one second this is what you are expected to do with your partner in real life, when that time comes.
I understand being curious, that's normal and perfectly alright, but that kind of stuff is the last place you should be getting your sex education from. I hope your sister will keep it to herself, and you will find something better to do with your time, but if you are viewing this garbage regularly, sorry, I do hope your sister does bring it to your parents attention because what you don't realize is porn can become addicting and can really screw up your sex life when the time comes to be with a real person and have an intimate relationship. It's happening more and more with lots of young guys, it can happen to girls too.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 “I know that I shouldn’t be watching porn and I have tried to curve (sic) the habit” vs… “I always ignore it but one day I decide to click on it I watched it and my sister caught me”
So which is it OP… a one time thing or an ongoing problem you need to cut back?
To be honest, it’s normal at your age to be curious but watching porn is not a good thing at your age. It’s not realistic and it’s not a good idea to get your ideas about it from fake stuff like porn.
IF it was a one shot deal, go and tell your parents the truth (takes the winds out of your sisters sails) IF it’s not a one shot deal (and I do believe it is NOT) then again you must tell your parents you were doing it (their fault for not having porn blockers on a child’s computer) and take your consequences. If you have a problem staying away from it, then have them install software on your computer so you can’t do it. And maybe suggest that you get some counseling to help you deal with the ramifications.
Personally I DID NOT allow my stepdaughter to have a personal computer in her room. Kids can get into too much trouble alone on the internet.
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reader, doom  +, writes (2 December 2012):
 after a certain age everybody watches porn. In reasonable time per weak of course. Your parents had the same thing at your age, so they know that at your age you become curious and it should happen. the best thing is not to do it often, and if you're accused never say yes, and never say no!!! just walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2012): I think your sister should learn to mind her own business. So long as you keep any viewing of Pornography discreet, and erase any history and cookies and learn that what you're seeing in these pictures and videos is NOT what actual sexual encounters are about but made for visual stimulation then I think you should be fine.
There is nothing intrinsically wrong with watching Adult films. Like anything, it's all a matter of control.
Flynn 24
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