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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over a year sex was grea for a long while, one night he came home from work and i looked in his phone and found out he was talking to a ex 5 states away he told me he talked to her once a month which was a lie one night hes out of town working. he said he was going to bed but pulled up his phone account and found out he was texting the same girl almost 1 hr after he told me he was going to bed. ever since than our relationship has gone downhill, i knew when we got together he liked porn, it went from casual to everyday to nothing, there are times when i dont mind it and when i do, so before we had sex he would watch it and now that i have talked to him re: my insecurities he wont watch it but hes not intimate with me. one night i had recorded him while i went outside and within a minute after i left he put the computer to the side did something with the tv and masterbated within 2-3 min. of me going outside and than,it also looked as if he was either recording himself because when he got up to go to the tv it he looked at the computer and shook his head as though he were communicating with someone, he refuses to watch the video and says there is no way he can prove that he was not interacting with the pc. iam so tierd of feeling like hes lying, on internet dating sites, having a affair but have no solid proof except for the video i dont know what to do. hes says hes into me but makes no effort unless porn is involved
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 I think you should follow your gut instinct. It is clear that you do not trust your boyfriend, and if there is no trust in a relationship then really there is no point in staying in it because you are only going to make yourself miserable in the end. You say yourself he is not intimate or passionate about you, you deserve to be with someone who actually makes an effort and makes you feel wanted. So my advice would be to end the relationship.
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