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*azzle
writes:After ending a 10 year relationship i begun a relationship with a friend who i really love. He is 43 years old and appears to be a commitment phobic! We have always had a good sex life....in the 8 months we have been together. Recently he does not seem to want to have sex and i feel rejected. He takes anti depressants as last year he took an overdose over his ex girlfriend. I know that he cares about me...however i often feel like he puts his friends before me....and i only seen to see him twice a week when i would prefer more. Am i wasting my time with this guy?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (2 December 2012):
 Anti-depressants can destroy any libido a person has. If you do have a libido you often have the inability to orgasm. Sex becomes very unfun when on anti-depressants.
That may be his issue.
As for seeing him more than twice a week, have you talked to him about it? What does he say? If he puts you off and you want more but can't have it, you have to decide if you are happy with twice a week and no sex or if you want more and are willing to end the relationship.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (2 December 2012):
Yes. You can do better....
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