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Why is my ex doing this?

Tagged as: Dating, Friends, Teenage, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (2 December 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

We were done. Over with. Almost a year and a half ago. We still had the same friends, so I see him every morning. We didnt talk much, but if we ever did on facebook we would have these mind blowingly long conversations. Sometimes we were friendly, sometimes we poked fun at each other. As time carried on, i started to like another boy.

It wasn't until a few days ago my ex decided he was going to comment on every post i made. For the first time he talked about our previous relationship (we were still joking around and he said "You too beautiful...Haha i made a funny, its funny because we are ex's."). He's been asking me day in and day out if I've been dreaming about him.

And then the day after we had a long convo again but this time he was a little mean and told me that he had a dream of running over my head with a steam roller and feeding my fingers to the wolves. (i dont really know if he was kidding.)

We continued our conversation and it ended badly i guess when i jokingly said "well fine if you are so exausted then go to bed"

and he said K Bye.

Then shut off of facebook.

I havent talked to him since Thursday.

And i just now relize how much i miss him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2012):

You are only 15 I guess, but I'll tell you this.. He is doing this because you keep coming to him and talking to him like a puppy dog. It only takes a few posts and nice words to shake you up, and he knows this and plays you very well.

Think long and hard, you really miss him? Or the conversations? Is that soemthing lacking on your other relationships?

He sounds a bit resentful, don't fall to his manipulation - play hard to get wait until he contacts you.

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