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male
age
30-35,
*ohn douglas
writes:Back in highschool i met a girl (3 years ago) . And overtime we got really close. And become like best friends. everyone was expecting us to start dating. And as a guy i did have feelings for her. But since i could get hotter chics i didnt want to screw with her not she is not hot just i didnt want her to be like my other on and of girlfriends. And the next year i moved to new city. But we were close. But as the summer came we didnt talk because we both have huge exams coming. When i went back for the summer i find out she has a boyfriend ( he is my friend). But i wasnt suprised and as usual we met sometimes. The next year we were both gonna leave for different college. And a day before i left we met up and talk about a lot of things. And in the next morning she text me saying that she loved me all along and she started dating him because that she tought she would forget me. And when i asked her why she didnt told me before. She said its because she was scared. So after a few days i got back and we met. And we talked about lots of thing and we kind of felt special connection but we Decide not to do anything before she broke up with him. But the next morning her boyfriend came by my house and told me that he didnt want to lose her and blabbed about how she wont love him as much as she loved me and how much he loves her. So the next day i called her told her to work things out with her boyfriend. She was very upset And now a year has passed and we never talk. And i kind miss her and over time though we haven talked .my feelings are getting stronger together especially seeing all my current relationship fail. And i know if i told her that i love her she will leave him (her bff told me that she still want me) and i know we would be great together. what shoul i do? Should i just forget her? If so how? Or should i tell her how i fell ? Thanx in advance.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 You know deep down that she loves you and it is making your feelings stronger as time goes on. I think you know you let her go and it hurt her and it is making you regret it even more. However I can see that your intentions where good and you had your friends interest at heart. You did not want to hurt him and that is obvious to see. But I think deep down you want to tell her the truth and I think that she should, it is not fair on your friend being with a girl who wants another man more than him in the long run. Its time to be honest with her and see how it goes. Good luck. Yes her boyfriend will be hurt and upset but he will eventually move forward.
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