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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Help everyone!I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. In the very beginning of our relationship he had left his iPad opened and nosey me checked out his Facebook . Well I came across a message he wrote to an ex saying how "he missed her and hoped to talk one day" well I was very distraught by all of this because all i kept wondering was why would he miss her if he has me. Anyways fast forward to the present the day after thanksgiving were driving to the airport and he receives a call. He seemed very secretive and all he said to the person was "I'll call you back" we'll I'm not stupid and I asked who it was and he said it was his job well I use to work at his job and i knew he was lying. I said tell me the truth and he goes " why can't i have girls as friends" and I ended up guessing it was his ex and he confirmed it was. I became enraged with anger because #1 in the past I have been lied to and turned out my ex was cheating on me. Well I told him I think it's inappropriate that she's calling you and you should call her back right now and tell her that and he did right in front of my face. I was upset but I thought nothing can be going because he did call her right? well all of sudden this girl starts to friend all his family members on Facebook and is writing messages to them. Now I don't know how react to all this because if in fact they did not have anything going on why is she reacting so hasty? I love my boyfriend.. He is good to me but I'm not sure what to believe. He says he hasn't done anything with her but I'm a flight attendant and not in town often. What do I do please help me.
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reader, Mint93  +, writes (2 December 2012):
I think maybe you should just sit him down and ask him to answer you honestly.The fact that you are a flight attendant just means that you'll be more worried everytime you go off to work.You may need to speak to the girl herself and ask her what is going on.You need to find out as soon as otherwise it'll just eat you up.
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