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*hatknut
writes:Ok. Long story short, I met this girl in Aug 2011. She had a boyfriend and broke up in Oct 2011. In January 2012 I really started to make a move. I took her to lunch and she made it obvious that she liked me a lot. We hung out several times and started talking a good bit. But, for whatever reason I was really hesitant to ask her on an official date. So I waited until the end of the semester, may 2012, and she said she would love to but she was going home to study for the weekend. So exams happened and we left for the summer. I never texted her back. Anyway, when summer came I really regretted everything I didn’t do. I told myself when we get back in Aug, I was going to make my move. Also, she is graduating 1 week from now and moving 1 hour away from my college. So when we got back I was talking to her for about 30 mins and she told me that she was talking to her ex again. I asked if they were dating, because I was going to ask her out to dinner, she said that it would be inappropriate if we went on a date, but she said she wanted to hang out. So about a week later she came over to my house and we watched a movie and talked. I didn’t make a move, because I thought it would be inappropriate. Later, she told me they were dating, so I pretty much backed off. But late this semester (1 month of no communication) she sent me song on facebook. We both love music and it really reminded me of her. So about a week later I texted her for only about 5 texts, but she was opening up to me about her current situation with no job offers. So I gave her encouragement and told her happy thanksgiving and left it at that. So ive only seen her once since then. Final start tomorrow and she’s moving off soo afterwards. My main question is this: I know I still like her and she shows signs that she still likes me, but is still with her bf, should I just let it go and not talk or should I try to tell her how I feel? I don’t have much to lose.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (3 December 2012):
 Hi, I would not express my feelings as she told you she was dating her ex. She clearly feels a stronger connection with this guy and sees you as friend and maybe even a safety net. Also she does not keep much contact with you, she just test the waters to see if you still around by sending an odd sms. If she was serious about you she would encourage you, but that has not been the case. I would keep my distance.
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reader, SouthbySouthEast  +, writes (2 December 2012):
Tell her how you feel. Either way if it's good news, then hurrah. If it's not, she's moving away anyway and you can deal with it before you get in too deep. The fact you are still wondering all these months later suggests something too though, don't you think?
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