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writes: I've divorced my husband after 20 together. I wasnt happy in my marriage for a long time. I've met this man while I was divorcing my husband. He is 16 years my senior. He is helpful during my divorce. Two years on I find him too old for me but I still sexually attracted to him. We live in separate home so the break up wont involve money or housing. I just dont know to go or stay. Please advise.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (28 April 2012):
Hi
In what way is he too old?
No point getting out of a marriage to end up with the wrong man and unhappy again, but you do not sound miserable. If he is not for you then finish it or suggest a sex only fling while you look around for a new man or taste being single
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reader, Skitskat2012 +, writes (28 April 2012):
Friends with benefits if u need sex
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (28 April 2012):
Age should not matter if you like him and you are attracted to him. What is stopping you? If you are happy then you should go for it, don't worry what other people think, as long as you like him that is the main thing.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 April 2012):
we need more info...
he's older than you by 16 years
you are sexually attracted to him
is he pushing you to move in or marry him?
why the need to end the relationship?
if you like him
if he likes you
if you are compatible and enjoy each other why the need to make the decision?
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