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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Prom is in a couple months.My principal likes to playfully set up single students so without permission from either of us, he asked my kinda sorta friend and I if we'd like to go to prom together.And I was just like okay sure, we can go as friends, and he said okay too.Then like a week later I'm hanging out with one of my best friends (who's closer friends with the prom date dude than I was with him), and she said "You don't like him do you?", and I was like "nah we're just going to prom as friends", and she said "Okay good, 'cause you know, he told me he's only going 'cause he thinks you like him, he really wanted to ask another chick to prom".So I'm like, furious, 'cause I TOLD him that we were just going as friends! And if he wanted to ask someone else to prom, that was okay with me! So I text him that I've decided I don't wanna go to prom with him after all, since he doesn't even wanna go with me.Then he texts me "seriously? That hurts :(" and I'm just like lol its fine just chill.Then the day we came back to school he wouldn't look at me or talk to me, which is unusual. And after lunch I was in the hall with some friends and he came over and he said he missed me and shook my hand. What?And like yesterday I heard that he's going to prom with some friends, and he never asked that girl out.And a couple days ago he posted this status on Facebook that was like "I want to forget you but I'm already lost in you" or something. And then a day later he deleted it. So I don't get it, was that meant for that chick or me.......?And he's just been looking really bummed everyday.Someone please shine some light on what is going on! :s
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2012): Either your friend has some wrong information or she was just having you on. That boy sounds infatuated with you, I would go after him before he gets too hurt.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 April 2012):
 Did it ever occur to you that maybe your friend was out to cause trouble? Did you actually ask him straight out was it true or did you just go and cancel on him. It sounds like he is hurt, and you never heard him say he wanted to go with this other girl so you should have asked him. Its clear he didn't want to go with her or else he would have asked her by now. So there is still some time to fix this. Write to him again and apologise and just say you wrote to him because you heard he wanted to go with this other girl and you thought you where doing the right thing and apologise if you where in the wrong. There is still some time to fix this and in future don't always pre judge people if you haven't heard them say something themselves.
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