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writes:There was this girl in my classes (both lecture and lab), well, from what I know there's not really a strong vibe between us (from my end anyway).We sat across from each other in our group of 4 in lab (I'm the only guy in the group by the way). In the past 2-3 weeks, she's keep bringing up how she's in a relationship (she's always the one to initiate conversation in the group), and even go as far as sharing her personal information like which apartment complex she's currently live in, when is her birthday and other things about her and her family.I guess it's worth to mention that this is the 3rd or 4th time she made the statement: "I like Asian/Chinese people". Did I mention that I'm mix Vietnamese/Chinese?Do you think: 1) She just being too friendly?2) She's playing mind game?3) She's trying to hint something? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2012): Sounds to me like she's just a very friendly person.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (27 April 2012):
 Ask her out for some coffee. If she is interested, then she will say yes, if not she will say no.
You'll have your answer.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 April 2012):
 Well it sounds like she just likes talking about herself. Am not sure if there is a hidden agenda here, as she keeps saying she is in a relationship. Maybe she is trying to see if you like her so she says this to see how you are going to respond. However it could be that she is just trying to be friendly to you, it is hard to tell what is going through her head. But she is in a relationship so I wouldn't read to much in to it.
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reader, golddigger99 +, writes (27 April 2012):
 This girl is really weird!!! So...she says she's in a relationship, but then hints that she might like you??? Doesn't sound like anything I would to if I was interested in someone, but what do I know--I'm married? Ever since I tied the knot, my game has gone down! lol!
Seriously though, if she went as far as to say that she liked Asian guys, then that's a tale, tale sign that she's into you. But then again, mentioning that she has a boyfriend just throws everything way off!
Honestly though, if she's that vocal about her extra curricular activies, then she seems desprate. This is someone I wouldn't even waste my time on! However, if you like her, then that's another story. Consider getting her alone and playing it by ear. See if she wants to meet you for coffee to study for your next exam. Offer to pay--if she allows, odds are her boyfriend 'statements' were just a ploy--a game--to get you to want something that you can't have--in an attempt to make you want it that much more. A.K.A. The She's Available Game!
Hope this helps...but seriously...she's a hard read. Good luck!
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