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writes:i met this girl in professional school (i am and INTP and she is an INFP for those who know Keirsey--we're both introverts). i am 28, she is 24. i really like her. we talk on FB chat all day most days, and she is generous to help me w/ schoolwork (she's a couple of years ahead of me in the program), but she also never wants to hang out. she's sort of mousy and shy, i gather. we have both gotten out of somewhat serious relationships w/i 6 months. i know she's not looking--she has told me--but she also seems like she just says things like that b/c. i'm not really looking per se either, but i also really like her and want to make it happen if the chance presents itself. i have laid it on pretty thick on a few drunken nights of texting, but she still talks to me all day, every day, via FB. she acts as though she has no idea why i spend so much time talking to her despite my expressed interest. i believe if i stick it out on FB long enough she may at least desire to hang out more. we have both been very busy w/ finals for the past month or so. help? generally? introvert-on-introvert love is tricky business...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks. i think you're right. she does seem like an oddity though. i'm not used to women being so distant. i wonder if she really talks to anyone in person.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2012): I'm an ISFJ on the Myers-Briggs.....doesn't mean anything. Except for I'm quiet (to the person unfamiliar), observant, peace seeker, and like to stay with myself. If this female liked you, to the point where she thought life or at least her life would not be the same without you, then she would already be with you pal. You're not what she wants as she expressed. Or she could be being polite by saying that bc she has no real romantic interest in you at all. She sees you as friend only, for heavens sake she doesn't even hang out with u. Side note, I've dated several introverts, I sense them out. And being my zodiac is cancerian I have, being modest I am a decent judge of character. If you've taken the step and she hasn't been drawn to your bait, then perhaps you should reel in your line and fish in another pond. Best wishes
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