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*rymsoul
writes:How can i tellers if a girl is showing a particular interest in me? Does she stare at you when she thinks you're not looking? Does she stand closer to you when it seem unnecessary? Does she start conversations with you out of the blue?The reason I ask is because I've been having the worst luck in reading the signs. I recently asked a girl out who was showing all the above signals but she turned me down anyways. How can I tell if a girl likes me or not? Also. How can i make an impression on a girl that i like without actually saying those words? How can i show her that I'm attracted to her in a subtle way. The reason why is because i want to test the water before i set myself up for another rejection. Thank you for your time. PS. Sorry for spelling or grammar mistakes. IM using my phone to ask this. Thank you for understanding. Reply to this Question
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (26 April 2012):
 Thanks for posting your question. There are a variety of ways women show their interest through body language. She may do all the things you've mentioned in your first paragraph... or she may play with (or toss around)her hair. She can cross her legs in your direction (if you both are sitting), or she may simply give you a smile. But the truth of the matter is you have to have faith in your "pick-up" abilities- and approach with confidence (regardless if you see signs or not). Even though there's a possibility of a rejection... there's also the possibility that you may get her number. So you'll never know until you try. I'm posting some links to some articles below that I think may be beneficial to you...http://www.dearcupid.org/question/need-a-confidence-booster.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-to-approach-a-girlthe-right-way.htmlhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/what--women-want-most-from-a-guy.htmlBest of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2012): I think you read the signs just fine. I just don't think you trust her or yourself very well. Every time you show someone you like them, you run the risk of being rejected...it's not about whether or not she likes you, it's about whether or not you want to risk being rejected.
Why not just show her you like her?
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