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writes:i am married for almost 2 years with the man i really love and spend the rest of my life with. as time goes by, i felt rejected to him everytime i want to have sex with him. either he is tired from work and he has a habit of having a hard time to sleep after sex thats why he is not comfortable having sex with me if he knows he has work day after. to make it short, unexpectedly i met a new man who is also married for 3 kids with a half lebanese wife. he is also not happy to his wife when it comes to sex. as time pass by, we enjoyed each others company including having sex. i know its immoral and a bad karma is waiting to us but we dont know how to get rid of each other. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2012): I'm going through a similar situation right now. I love my husband and I know he loves me but the sex has never been great and I'm tired of initiating it. We live more like roommates or brother & sister than husband & wife. I'm at the threshold of a full blown affair and am trying my best to pull back. Sigh.
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reader, Thisiscrazy  +, writes (29 April 2012):
 Short and sweet ok here goes...if you really truly love your husband you wouldn't be doing this to him. Sex is just a added bonus in any relationship and for you to go somewhere else for it behind your husbands back is such a lack of respect towards him.. You have 2 choices leave your husband and stop disrespecting him this way. 2 stop seeing this other man no contact nothing and at least be a good wife and tell your husband how you are feeling and try and work things out. Your a married woman you made vows at least respect that and do the right thing
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 April 2012):
 You just need to stop seeing each other and delete all contact details and work on your marriage. If you don't do this then you will probably lose your husband and him and you will be left alone. Sex is only a part of a relationship. Just because your husband can get tired from work does not mean that you should go looking else where. If you have a high sex drive, find other ways to relief it other than looking for another man. You need to stop all contact with this man now or you will only live to regret it. Think of your poor husband and his poor wife and children. They don't deserve this. You just need to find the will power to stay away from him.
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