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writes: I dont know if I should stay freinds with my ex stressing me out some he is a demanding type and that is why I asked him to move out we have not been broke up long someone mentioned compromise has to be in a realtionship and to me he aint about that.Now he can get mad about the sillest things with our frienship I still see some of the things that were there when we lived together he is separated and has 6 kids I am single and have a 18 year old handicapped daughter an example of getting mad about something food for Thanksgiving he fixed a big bowel of potatoe salad well last night he went to get some and starts you'll dont ate that bowel I saved him some yes silly.My one problem is what to say to him and I say it best to do it sooner then later with Xmas coming up and everything mind you he already has my gift he even brought my daughter something I have court next week and I dont have anyone but him to see her off the school bus so I am saying wait until after that that I will say he is a jealous type and he may go there but I do not have anybody else so what do I do stay a freind to him or let it go
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (28 November 2011):
Let him go. Don't use him just because you don't have anyone else, this will give him false hope. It is time you removed him from your life if you are not happy with him. Am sure if you asked around neighbours or a friend they would be happy to assist your daughter or even arrange a carer to do it. Don't use him for your own selfish needs to dump him later, because it is cruel. tell him the friendship is over and move forward with your life.
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