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writes:So there's this guy right.He's such a great guy, we met actually a year ago yesterday, but I've only seen him a couple of times.. I get really nervous around him.. Why I don't know but I do.. His mom and my sister are friends. Since the first time the lady met me she has told me I want you to meet my son. You two would make a great couple. Since then she calls me her daughter in law using the Spanish word for it, everytime I see her.. And her son calls my sister hus sister in law in Spanish Well when we got introduced, my sister tells him look this is your girlfriend and this is your boyfriend joking around.. We've seen each other at gatherings he just stares at me.. His mom and my sister always joke around with us... About when are we going out. I turn red and just stay quiet.. He's says he's waiting on me to make the first move..his mom even took pictures of me and him together she posted them on facebook saying her son and my beautiful daughter in law.. So everyone back at home from where there from think I'm his girlfriend..lol At his birthday party he was chatting with my sister and me asked for my number. he put my number under my future wife and he gave me his number. He said he doesn't think I like him. He asked me if I do. I just smiled at him.. I mean he is cute he's really nice we became friends on facebook.. But since being friends with him on facebook I think he might be gay. He has tons of gay friends. I have friends that are gay, bi,lesbians.. There's this one guy, he's a performer, dresses in drag on his face book that calls him babe tells him I love you tags him on pictures saying my husband, but he never replies back, doesn't mention about being gay Which I think he's hiding it he hasn't came out yet.. His family doesn't know he's gay.. we've txt and msgd a couple of times.. Once on face book he put I'm so happy god has blessed me I'm gonna be a father.. So I commented congrats, later on he txt me saying, no I'm sorry don't take it the wrong way I need to explain, I'm like there's no need to explain we're just friends I'm really happy for you. well it turns out his mom is pregnant and well his mom is old, well not that old but its was all too shocking that at her age she would be pregnant.. And she works a lot and well he says its gonna be his child because he raised his little sister pretty much because his parents were always working and well he's going yo be the one raising this new baby... Ok well that happen, then he always runs into my sister he asks about me tells her he's going to ask me out, wants to go out with me, but he hasn't.. I see he's always putting stuff on facebook about love about a certain person that she means the world to him that he can't wait to be with this person again.He had a blast with the person he loves and he can't wait for the weekend he's talking about the guy in drag... He never mentions if its a guy or a girl.. Which obviosly it has to be the guy.. So I saw him yesterday he came to my house to pick up his sister but his other brother had picked her up already, so he stayed for a bit to eat and talk to my mom, sister and me.My mom is like so when are you and my daughter going out.. He looks at me and says whenever she's free I would love to go out with her.. And he just stares at me and he smiles and I just smile and blush, even though I know he's gay I'm some what attracted to him.. So I know I have no chance I don't really take it serious on what he says about going out.. I'm mean I would love to he's cute nice personality.. But there's no chance.. My sister also knows he's gay but he doesn't know we know.. But my sister tells me I think he does have a thing for you, she says she catches him staring at me, his eyes sparkle when he sees me walking in the room .. So its like he could be bi but the way he talks, and sometimes by the way he dresses make him look gay.. So I have no idea what think of him.. Could he be confused? I do like him, I just don't know if I should ask him if he's gay or not.. What if he gets mad? So I have no idea what think of him.. Could he be confused? I do like him, I just don't know if I should ask him if he's gay or not.. What if he gets mad?
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reader, synchrohobbit +, writes (30 November 2011):
 This is a pretty ridiculous situation...this woman pretending you are her daughter-in-law, this closeted guy pretending to be the father of his mom's child, everyone acting like this is perfectly normal. Ignore him, and if you don't feel comfortable talking to his mother, ask your mom and sister point blank why they think this is so hilarious and how they actually see you two together. I have no idea whether or not he is gay, but he sounds incredibly annoying either way.
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reader, Xearo  +, writes (27 November 2011):
It's natural you are confused dear, you don't know the guy. Not only that but you base your judgements on facebook, which I think is a good way to stereotype someone but not to "know" them. It is your call like he says if you want to get to know him as well. And all these questions you can ask him yourself.
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