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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I can't forget him...and we were no one to one another.We were really nothing to one another. i was a really awkward, inexperienced senior in college and he was a party boy. Opposites attracted, he freaked out, defended his image by bringing mines down, and his last statements were that "i followed him around" when a girl confronted him so ofcourse I could never get back in touch. on top of that, one of his guy friends was an ex-crush and he thought i was flirting with both of them in the stupidest way...when really his friend was just someone i respected because his friend did not judge the loner me and would always be kind to me. it was a different set of feelings. i haven't seen him in more than a year and a half. i've moved on to grad school. definitely had some social experiences and wake-up calls as to how silly i must have seemed to him, especially a party boy. met many people...but just can't get over him.it just felt so real. what do i do? will this ever pass? i need to study for a test so need to let this out and get advice!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 November 2011):
 You will get over him eventually. Just try and stop thinking about him. He was cruel to you and did not respect you in the slightest. Really he is not worth your thoughts at all. But you cannot help how you feel, but still he was ashamed to be associated with you, this is not the type of person you want to be with. He did not respect you as a person so now you need to not respect him or give him the time of day. There are plenty of men out there who would be proud to admit that they were part of your life you just need to go out and look for them. For now just concentrate on doing the best you can in your exams and achieving a good education. There is plenty of time to get out there and meet new guys and get over this loser. Good luck.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (27 November 2011):
 Yes... it will pass. Meanwhile, throw yourself in to studying for your tests...... No guy is worth compromising your studies/tests.....
Good luck....
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