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writes:I have ended my 4 year relationship after catching her cheating for the 5th time. She still tries to contact me, bitterly and never mentions or changes the subject, when i try to tell her why we have broke up. She used to blame me for driving her to have affairs by saying I never talked to her and coming out with lies about what she believed i had done and somehow the lies became part of her memory as fact. I have been in a living hell so why am i the bad guy for leaving? She has now started a vendetta in which i cant prove anything. How can i get this woman to leave me alone. People believe i have left her for another woman. She still wont mention the cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011): Her behaviour is that of someone with a narcissistic personality disorder. She believes she is the injured party. Just hope she meets someone else asap. They tend to forget fast and fall in love with the new one then. He will be her future bad guy then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011): Your not the bad guy here, she seems to think you will put up with any behaviour.Regardless of the reasons, she's your Ex, its over.
Time to get tough, do not respond to her at all.If she texts or emails, save them. Then either go to the police or get some legal advice. She's maligning your character, harrassing you, which is affecting your life and you don't have to take this, she has to be stopped one way or another.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (28 November 2011):
 Change your number.
Has she been physically showing up on your doorstep? If so, take legal action.
I would look into issuing a restraining or no contact order against this woman. She's clearly harassing you.
First warn her you'll get the authorities involved if she doesn't leave you..if you doesn't heed your warning then follow thru.
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