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writes:Hi! I am curious of the mening of the type of hugs men give. I have been seeing a doctor for the past two years for a surgery and post ops afterwards. There has been a bit of flirting both ways. We are both married with kids. At the end of my last appointment, we were in the exam room alone and out of the blue, he openned his arms and hugged me really tight chest-to-chest. It was a nice hug. He just held me for awhile. I wasn't creeped out by it but surprised. Is this just a friendly gesture?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011): Thanks A. Honesty and ChaliceODamnation for your replies. I am the OP. My husband and I are working on our marriage and making good strides. I had a real heart to heart talk with my husband and it went well. Just thinking back, I was not particularly stressed out that day and am pretty even keeled. This has been going on for more than two years and I have been nice--maybe too nice. There has been touching and more flirting--extended eye contact, joking etc. all behind closed doors. Sometimes, his assistant would be there and roll her eyes. I just have to hear it from other people because I like to thought the doctor nd I could just be friends? Maybe not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011): Reason why its suggested more and more that a Male Doctor have a Female Nurse in attendance. To avoid such instances of what could turn into a claim of misconduct.
Please bring your husband next time. And stop the flirting and friendly gestures.
If you are unhappy in your marriage and need excitment, start sharing some fantasies with husband and special exciting drives with some foreplay and maybe even getting a hotel room for a weekend away from kids.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 November 2011):
 If you have had a stressful time then maybe he was just being friendly and offering some comfort to you. However he is overstepping the mark here as your doctor. He is married and so are you, so forget about this and don't even think about going there to many people would get hurt over something that would really not be worth it.
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