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female
age
30-35,
*pendy
writes:Why is he coming back to me now? should I just ignore him? There's this guy that I use to like.. He'd stare at me all the time. We were getting to know each other and he said he wanted to take things slow. We use to talk everyday but he stopped ringing and texting.He stood me up 3times.. Won't call to cancel he'd just not bother and say sorry and would do that again. So I deleted his number and moved on.3weeks later, he's ringing me non stop and texted me apologising saying he's been busy and we should definitely go out.I don't wanna go through with all of that anymore. Am I nice girl. I could've loved him. I didn't answer his calls or texted him back.But I guess he wasn't interested and I don't wanna be made a fool out of again. So should I just ignore him?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (28 November 2011):
 If you don't want to go thru that again, or look like a fool, then ignore him.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (28 November 2011):
 There is no condoning his behavior.
I would cease all contact with him if he shows you little respect.
Hope this helps!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 November 2011):
 How he behaved was completely out of order. You have every reason to completely ignore him now. It sounds like he had been interested so why he stood you up three times is the question that is left hanging. But he didn't even have the decency to cancel with you before hand. I guess he knows now he made a mistake and he has come running back to you again. I guess it is up to you now if you allow him back in. But if you where to give him a second chance then you would need to make him work hard for it and show him that what he done was completely unacceptable.
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