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writes:im very worried about my son mason hes 15, i had him when i was about 16 and i dont want him to have a baby so young i want him to live his life first!!! he brings his girlfriend over to our house all the time shes beautiful and shes got an amazing personality but all they do when they come home is have sex. masons been sexualy active since he was 13 he told me this when we were having an argument. hes always at partys drinking and smoking. he hasnt had a father figure because his dad died when he was young, he has a step dad but he hates him because he calls his girlfriend a slag which i do not argee with atall but i cannot anything ? what if he gets kia pregnant ? i wouldnt be able to cope! what ca ido to stop my sons out of control behaviour ? please help x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2011): i think your kid needs counselling and alot of positive parental control. Tell him he can have a girlfriend only if he wont have sex with her. You have to prove to him that its gonna ruin his life. If he is a sex addict maybe its a result of something he used to be upset about. Counselling is best i can suggest. And tell his step father to just be easy with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2011): Sounds like it's too late to do much of anything now. In my opinion, a 15 year old shouldn't just be allowed to have sex in your house. I'm also wondering what your sex talks were like when he was younger, because it doesn't sound like you have told him to wait to have sex, or what it will be like to have a baby at his age. You and your husband need to talk it over and set up some rules, like no more sex in the house, and if she gets pregnant he's on his own type things. If you know he's going to a party, he can't go. Remember, you're the parent here! Take a stand!
Unfortunately, at his age and the fact that all of this has been going on for some time, it's going to be hard even trying to get him back on the right path.
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