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writes:Hi my name is vincent Ive been going with this girl for 3 years since our junior year in high school and we had some problems off and on 6 months after we started dating we broke up and she had sex with her ex she came back to me apologizing saying it was such a stupid mistake i forgave her and we got back together after that we had some problems off and on i had trust issues and other stuff but we went on dating and tried to make stuff work.recently this april of 2011 we broke up again and stayed apart for a few months right after we broke up she starts sleeping with this guy and getting drunk every night she sleeps with him then sleeps with his friend sucked the guys thing let girls eat her out while she got drunk and caught a std from the guy i didnt know any of this until after we got back together because she came back to me cryin saying she was sorry apologizing and other stuff so we get back together everything going good for a few weeks until she gets this new job at fed ex then she starts to like someone else tells me she didnt want a relationship anymore. we havent talked in 2 weeks now I was just wondering am i wrong for not talking to her? should i just leave her alone? do u think she will hit me up again? this may sound crazy but i still kinda love her and miss her when we dont talk Ive done everything for this girl ive neva cheated i took her and her family anywere they wanted to go fed her when she was hungry anything she needed i had her and she just played me Oh and that whole six months we wasnt together and she was messin with someone else i was having sex with her to off and on I got checked and im clean so please tell me what i should do now
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reader, theaboo +, writes (28 November 2011):
 Aunt Honesty is 100% right. You deserve better. You'll probably always love her and care about her and that's okay, but if you keep letting her walk all over you, you'll resent yourself one day for being weak willed!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 November 2011):
 you should delete all of her contact details and leave her alone. She has made it clear she is not serious about you and she likes someone else. She may contact you in the future but she is only going to keep hurting you if she does. You need to take control now and remain strong. She is not good for you, she is toxic and you are just willing to take her back and she knows this so she is keeping you as her back up plan if things don't work out for her. You deserve more than this. You deserve someone who will love you back, who will respect you and love you for who you are, and she is never going to give you those things. You need to make a clean break now and start getting over her. Am glad you never caught anything from her, but sleeping with her like that was careless on your part as well. So it is now time for a clean break, strictly no contact. Get out and have fun with your friends. Keep yourself busy and occupied and give yourself time to get over her. You will be much happier in the long run. Good luck.
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