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*azy
writes:it's been three months since i split with my ex bf of 1yr 3months ( he was cheating on me). since then i've been asked out by 4 guys who really want long term relationship with me but i said no..however recenetly a guy from my past came back.. we was together for 6months but were seeing each other mainly just fun and company but we split when he was drunk and called me hairy ugly fat etc.. i was heartbroken he did apolgise loads but after that i began relaitonship with A (my ex)..anyways this guy from past came back and we said iwll give another shot and now he tells me he lves me..some thing he never says lightly.is this right should i give us another go?
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reader, kazy +, writes (28 November 2011):
kazy is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni said to him im dumping him i was really upset over my ex..i texted this guy but he was no comfort what so ever..and now he being a jerk thanks guys u were right xx
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reader, Placebogirl +, writes (27 November 2011):
 Personally I don't think its a good idea. What he said to you was horrible - even if he was drunk!
Also the fact he is saying that he loves you, even though you've only started speaking again recently is a bit odd.
If you would like to give it another go I would suggest getting to know him again first, you were with your boyfriend a long time and people change. Possibly go out for a coffee or a drink.
If you do decide to give him another chance i would suggest not getting too involved too quicky - have some time to asess the situation.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 November 2011):
I don't think this is a good idea. I think you're having some trouble picking men at the moment. You've attracted at least two that have been bad. Your ex from three months ago cheated, and this other guy from the past treated you like dirt.
I would strongly suggest that you start looking at the sort of guys you're attracted to. You seem to be in danger of just picking guys who are basically crap and will hurt you.
Also, this ex only apologized for his behaviour when you got with someone else, indicating that he wasn't really interested in you as a person, but rather keeping control of you.
This looks to me like a bad position to be in. I think you should let all your ex's go into the past where they belong, and focus on your own confidence, and also your own choice of men.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2011): hey..no he didnt cheat on.. my ex did..this guy just dissed me . thanks for your response
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reader, bluegreen  +, writes (27 November 2011):
 What makes you so sure that when you take him back, he wont repeat the same mistakes that he did to you?
But if you really want to take him back: Make him win you again, and dont be easy. I mean, man, he CHEATED on you.
P.S. Do not allow anybody call you ugly.
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