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writes:ok well im back with another dilema :( my ex boyfriend (not my bby daddy) has been talking to me. he was always a great friend but when we were together we had sex once and thats all. we stayed in touch after we broke up.he was always a better friend than a lover. Recently hes been asking me if we can be friends with benefits. i have my boyfriend to whom im supposed to be marrying towards the end of the year but nothing goes on between us. hes always tired frm work and he never has time plus he lives with his family so there is no privacy. we tried to be intimate a couple times but nothing ever happens he just cant. he say "im sorry" and he feels that ima leave him because of this but i love him so much! :( and and now i don't know what to do my ex keeps suggesting that we do it and itll be ourlittle secret just like the last time we were together. its very tempting and hes planning a date for us to meet. i just dont know what to do! im really into my ex but i love mi fiance. and i really want to be with him but hes never in the mood and my ex is jus always in the mood and hes amazing :/ i just dnt knw what to do i dont want to fall in temptaion. should i talk to my fiance about his issue? or should i just get comfort from my ex and keep evrything a secret ( but its difficult because as we all know secrets dont stay hidden for long :/ ) please i need some advice and dont think wrong of me :/
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (14 July 2011):
 Well said Ampersand.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (14 July 2011):
 You're getting married so young. I think you should wait and see what you really want. You shouldn't want to be with any other man besides your fiance. Don't have a few nights of good sex and end up losing your fiance. Talk to him about this because you two are going to marry each other and he deserves to know how you feel. Don't be tempted by your ex; there's a reason he's your ex and he just wants some one night stands.
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