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30-35,
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writes:me and my ex had a big fight not long ago, afterwards, everytime i went to his work he would rub it in that he wasnt talking to me by saying hello to my bestie all the time and saying bye to her and saying her name after the hi and the byes. i messaged him over fb after he did it 3 times and asked him to please stop that i know he doesnt wanna talk to me and so on...he messaged back telling me that he can do what he wants, whenever he wants and so on...he only did it once more one night but sounded upset while he did it, had his head down and passed my bestie. the other night me and my friends went to his work, he was having a smoke on his break outside of his work but a few metres away near one of the trees near the carpark, my friend ran in to get smokes, came back coz he forgot wat ones. my ex saw me with my head out my car door and just kept staring at me as usual. my friend ran back into the supermarket, next thing i know he comes up to my car window, we look each other deeply in the eyes and he was about to say something to me but saw there was others in the car so he didnt, he walked around, said hello to my mate who he hasnt seen in ages, then he crouched down to our height, and kept talking to her, looking past her all the time to me and even lit another smoke to stay at my car. he brang his gf up for no reason saying "i wanna go out it depends whether my missues lets me or not" then he said to me saying my name, "your car tryed to kill me" i asked why? and he said "i opened the door and it shut on me, ya car doesnt like me" and we both laughed, 2 nights after he saw me at his work, was talking to someone, kept looking at me and smiled, walked over to me and my bestie and asked if we wanted a manderene, then he passed me on the left side like he always does when we are close for some reason...the thing im asking is why he is doing all of this but still has me blocked on fb?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2011): This is all very pety. As soon as he started the 'hi/bye' to your friend without acknowledging you, instead of messaging him you shouldve blocked him and laughed off his childish attempt at pissing you off.
For real why do you even care about this dude? He sounds like a jerk to me.
To answer your question he isn't ignoring you anymore because he has moved on with a new girlfriend and has other priorities to attend rather than this silly argument you are both brewing.
Its blaitantly obvious you still love him, every step he takes you can't help but obsess. You seem to know every movement, every look, everything that goes on with him. That's not healthy. If for some reason he is clocking you and it turns out he feels the same then what does that make you? His bit on the side?
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