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anonymous
writes:I am 18 years old and i have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half. She is head over heels in love with me, and i thought i felt the same, and i think i still do, but sometimes i'm not quite sure. It's been a rocky relationship lately, both of us have threatened to leave the other, although she had no intention of following through, unlike myself. Neither of us is the same person we were a year and a half ago, but whether I'm in love with her or not, i know i still care about her very much. On top of that, I'm on off to college soon and she is still in high school, and I may have met someone else who i know i am interested in and who may be interested in me.So basically, my girlfriend is still crazy in love with me, and, while i like her very much, i don't feel quite as strongly as i once did, and there is now someone else in the picture. I want to be with my girlfriend, but everything is pointing to a break up. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2011): why do you want to be with your girlfriend if you're no longer in love with her and you want to be with someone else?
if you're only "wanting" to be with your girlfriend because you're afraid to hurt her by breaking up, this is a bad reason. Staying with someone for this reason is being fake. and will hurt her even more by wasting her time being with her and yet not returning her feelings.
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reader, Star xxx  +, writes (13 July 2011):
 It sounds very much like you are going to end up hurting both of you in time if you carry on with your relationship.
The fact that you have said there is already someone else in the picture speaks volumes, if you were really that into her there would not be that other person.
If you read back to yourself what you have written I think you will see how much you are trying to convince everyone you should not be together and once you see that I think you will have your answer.
Take care xx
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