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writes:So here is the thing im 38 weeks pregnant and due any day now. a few weeks ago my boyfriend/baby dad broke up and we got back together last saturday. from june 30 untill now he has been hanging out with his friends all the time. alot more then he use too! so saturday we went to the movies and he was texting and he was kinda putting his hand over his phone when he was texting. then last night when he came to my house he turned his phone off.then today i asked him if he was gonna stay the night with me again and he said he couldnt because he had to work in the morning. he usually has wensdays off he said that he had to work for someone else. before we broke up he didn't use to hangout with his friends alot. is was like every once in awhile. he didnt use to try and hide his phone and he didnt turn his phone off when he came to my house he also would still stay the night with me even if he had to work the next morning. so i was texting him and i told him that i was gonna go he said okay usually he asks why i dont wanna talk to him but this time he didn't. and when he hangs out with his friends he never asks me to go. one of his friends always has his girlfriend with him but my boyfriend never asks me to hangout with them. could this be a sign that my boyfriend is seeing another girl? he also made a facebook and hasnt added me or nothing.what should i do? thanks
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (14 July 2011):
What you should do is learn to start communicating with your bf. You are going to need to learn how to do this for the sake of your child more than anything else, so even though it can be difficult to talk about things that are hard, such as confronting him about him possibly seeing another girl, or why he is behaving differently to what he has been, or what you need from him during this time, it is in your best interests.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (13 July 2011):
 I do think that there's someone else. He's made it very obvious in everything he does. I think you should talk to him about it because it sounds like he is. I think maybe he feels he's going to be tied down when the baby comes so he's having as much fun as he can with his friends. Just ask him calmly if he's seeing anyone else and point out all the signs he's been giving. If he says no then ask him to spend more time with you and if he can't do that, then at least ask him to not be so private with his phone and to leave it on while he's with you. If he refuses or tries to turn things around on you, then he's most likely cheating. After you talk, decide what you want to do. You wouldn't want to be with a cheater would you? Hope I helped.
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