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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I have been really intmate, it will be our first time together or for either one of us. We usually get in the mood and I go beyond to get her aroused and she does but our problem is that it hurts her a lot which we know is normal but she says she feels pressure builds up and she says hes pretty thick. We need help and some tips too make it less painful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2011): i appreciate the feedback my girlfriend and me are very thankful =).
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reader, Lolly_Poll  +, writes (15 July 2011):
The first time for a girl, it is normal for it to hurt. The first couple of times really. Let her know that she's in control, so if it hurts and she asks you to stop, then you stop. That'll make her relax a bit, and it won't hurt as much. As long as you take it slowly and be gentle. If for the first time you can't enter her all the way, don't worry. Just try a little at a time. Keep reassuring her, and ask her if she's enjoying it. It stops hurting pretty much straight afterwards so it'll be ok :) Have fun, be safe :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 July 2011):
 I'm afraid that what she is feeling is perfectly normal, the first time will be painful for her to start off with but it may get easier for her as it goes on. Just make sure that before you enter her that you have her extremely aroused spend time turning her on first. Also use loads of lubrication as well that will help and just be gentle.
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