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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend is so sweet. We've been together for over a year now and for some reason I don't trust him. He trusts me completely. It never used to bother me, we used to be fine before but now I get upset all the time when we watch movies with girls that are trying to be sexy or if he sees stuff. I don't know why..I know it may be stupid but I always have the thought in my head that when he sees this women, he's gonna think she is a lot prettier than me. He knows it bothers me so he always looks away whenever something comes on the screen. He tells me he doesn't care about them and that he is only attracted to me and doesn't notice or think about other girls. I don't have self-confidence or anything so when I hear this stuff and also when he says I'm the most beautiful person he's ever seen I just don't believe him because I don't understand how I could look so good to him. I worry about him and he doesn't even talk to other girls. I don't know what's wrong with me. I really need some advice. I want to keep my relationship with him but sometimes it really hurts because I don't know how to fix it. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (13 July 2011):
 It's time for you to do some research on building self-esteem. Google it and read up on it, there are all kinds of books on the subject. There are differnet approaches and one should work for you, you just have to find it.Once you start feeling more confident in your own skin you will be to relax and enjoy your boyfriend as well as life in general. Truly worth the effort involved. Good luck..
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